A Creative Romantic Lives in You
Most of people are on the myth that they don’t have time or take the initiative to be romantic? And most people don’t believe that they are creative enough to be romantic. In fact everyone is creative! The definition of being creative is to have the ability or power to create. The word create offers a much broader definition than most people thinks when it comes to the process of being able to come up with something original or simply well thought out.
Gifts that are considered to be traditionally romantic like candy and flowers are wonderful, but sometimes you need to have to go little further. If your spouse likes flowers, you just don’t settle your affection by gifting some roses only. Roses may quickly become unexciting. Present your spouse with a difference - say some thing completely original like a daisy flower or some other flower where petals can be counted.
Ask him or her to play the childhood game of ‘they love me, they love me not’ and watch them pluck the petals as they go. But take care not to allow for the possibility of him or her arriving at ‘they love me not’. Count the petals before you present the flower to your spouse and trim it so that there is an odd number of a petal for the right outcome.
Arts and crafts are used to be a fun break from the monotony of the school day, but the fact is that it will come in handy when it comes to creative romantic gestures. Instead of promising that you will love him or her, prove your love is forever. Take a piece of paper, ribbon or some other material suitable to write and write “I love you” on both sides from end to end. Twist the paper 180 degrees and connect both ends of the paper until you have made what looks like the figure eight. Tape or glue to ends together. You can present your love with a symbol that shows them your love for them is an endless love.
Creativity comes in many different ways. Being creative means creating a different atmosphere. If you want to plan the ultimate romantic evening but funds are low or you simply don’t want to have to leave the house, shut down the electricity and create a power outage situation. It’s up to you whether or not you tell him or her. You won’t have any distractions or heat, so it is up to both of you to keep the other in the warmth of love and entertain each other.
Maybe you have romance is on your mind, but your spouse may be going out of town. Did you know that people on airplanes are typically hopeless romantics? Any flight attendant would be more than happy to make sure that your spouse receives a special present after the flight has left the ground. Simply approach a crewmember after he or she boards the plane and they are usually more than happy to oblige a hopeless romantic like you. You might want to make sure that the gift is unwrapped or keep it to a single rose due to heightened security.
Creativity doesn’t mean that it should be in the form of gifts only. Acts like getting up and dancing with your spouse when a special song comes on the radio is quite creative and incredibly romantic! Whenever the mood strikes you, allow your creative juices to flow!
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