A Little Goes a Long Way
To maintain relationships are never always easy. It is normal to hit some bumps in the road of your life or have long stretches where you and your partner have a hard time. Couples who are lucky enough to seem to get along more often than not have probably discovered a little secret early on in their marriage. That secret is to express love and affection in simple ways often. Not always in big ways when things seem to be going badly or when an apology is in order.
Make a stop on the way home from work to pick a bunch of wildflowers from the road side vendor for your spouse. She may have had a difficult day on the job or the kids might have trying her patience or you both simply seem to have lost your intimacy lately. If you took the time to select just for her on the way home and walk in the door with a fist full of wildflowers, you will have broken the surrounding atmosphere with love and consideration. You will be starting fresh with that one, small yet powerful gesture.
If you are going out of town or simply feel like ‘ships passing in the night’ because of kids or commitments or work, try to find a sun catcher, charm or porcelain figure in the shape of a star or a shooting star. Wrap the trinket in a small gift box and fold a note on top of it that says, “Wish you were here” and place it in his or her travel bag or even in a briefcase or purse. When he or she finds it and knows that you are missing them and thought enough to share that sentiment, it will stir emotions that may not have been awakened in some time.
In order to have a change from tedious or tired routines or to inspire intimacy, you might be wondered at how little effort it is required. Tape a note on the television that says, “Wouldn’t you rather turn me on?” instead. If he or she is enjoying a good book, remove the bookmark and replace it with a note that says, “I bet you’ll never guess where I’ve hidden your bookmark.”
Remember the small things you used to do when you first got together that would make your heart flutter and put a twinkle in your eye? Do them again! When you go shopping, for a walk or you’re just sitting together watching TV, hold hands, link arms or put your arm around her. Softly whisper “Hey” into his or her ear and gaze lovingly into each other’s eyes. If he or she wants to know what you are doing, simply say that you are amazed at how much you love them.
These simple, small acts can really go far when it comes to sparking a little romance in your marriage. They can break the monotony of a relationship or help your partner to feel appreciated and loved. You can expect to feel the same in return!
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